HELP!
Kinah is already 18mths..Soon she'll turn 19mths..and soon 2yrs old. Alhamdullilah, she's doing fine, tak kiralah in development or anything. Dulu she can answer u in 1 word answer like :-
QNS : Kinah dah mamam?
ANS : Dah...
QNS : Dah mandi?
ANS : Dah...
QNS : Siapa mandikan..
ANS : Nenek..
But now, she can talk in a complete sentence..though it's a combination of mixed language..A language of her own and a general language which both u and i, can understand..
One morning, in Central Mahkota Hotel, she woke me up and said this, "Bu, ayah do(reads : tido), krukkk..kruukk (Berdengkur sound), ape jer!" I was stunned and realize how funny it was, I laughed out loud!!!Tat was her ayah's part..But on last Wednesday, I was abt taking my dinner wen she said this "Bu ni!!Akan jer..(Reads : Makan jer!)"
Again, I was stunned wif wat she said..Dlm ati, budak nie tak padan kecik..aku sental jugak mulut dia dgn cili..Berbual cam org tua..But, definitely, I'm not angry wif her..In fact, I'm proud of her..
But I've got one problem..she's stubborn..she wants to do things her own way..which at times, merbahayakan diri...Lil Kinah tak padan pompan..Lasak..Or if I forbid her doing something, and she refuse to listen..normally, I'll tell her 3times..Still tak dengar kata, then, 1 pinch @ kaki..biar terasa sakit..and still continue doing it...So, in the end, I'll just take the thing tat she was playing wif away from her, and she'll cry and cry..For me, I'll just let her be..coz she'll cry for a short while rather than we continue scolding her and buat sakit hati jer...
I heard from my friends, they will beat their kids with rotan..I'm not too sure if I can do tat..To me, it's too violent..Kalau dah biasa rotan, nanti dorang pun dah kebiasaan kena rotan..
Any advise from mummies out there, on how to discipline kids..especially those stubborn ones...Pls!!!
QNS : Kinah dah mamam?
ANS : Dah...
QNS : Dah mandi?
ANS : Dah...
QNS : Siapa mandikan..
ANS : Nenek..
But now, she can talk in a complete sentence..though it's a combination of mixed language..A language of her own and a general language which both u and i, can understand..
One morning, in Central Mahkota Hotel, she woke me up and said this, "Bu, ayah do(reads : tido), krukkk..kruukk (Berdengkur sound), ape jer!" I was stunned and realize how funny it was, I laughed out loud!!!Tat was her ayah's part..But on last Wednesday, I was abt taking my dinner wen she said this "Bu ni!!Akan jer..(Reads : Makan jer!)"
Again, I was stunned wif wat she said..Dlm ati, budak nie tak padan kecik..aku sental jugak mulut dia dgn cili..Berbual cam org tua..But, definitely, I'm not angry wif her..In fact, I'm proud of her..
But I've got one problem..she's stubborn..she wants to do things her own way..which at times, merbahayakan diri...Lil Kinah tak padan pompan..Lasak..Or if I forbid her doing something, and she refuse to listen..normally, I'll tell her 3times..Still tak dengar kata, then, 1 pinch @ kaki..biar terasa sakit..and still continue doing it...So, in the end, I'll just take the thing tat she was playing wif away from her, and she'll cry and cry..For me, I'll just let her be..coz she'll cry for a short while rather than we continue scolding her and buat sakit hati jer...
I heard from my friends, they will beat their kids with rotan..I'm not too sure if I can do tat..To me, it's too violent..Kalau dah biasa rotan, nanti dorang pun dah kebiasaan kena rotan..
Any advise from mummies out there, on how to discipline kids..especially those stubborn ones...Pls!!!
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