DIMENSI KE 4...

2004 will be the most memorable year for me and the rest of my family..U may ask me why..Coz tat was the year I broke the news to everyone tat I'm pregnant,meaning, it will definitely make a complete family. Then, 2nd mth of pregnancy, I fell sick..Dunno y, bila Maghrib, me start sakit kepala. Till one day, my Aunt voiced out to my parents and also hubby to bring me to see someone who is more 'bijak pandai'..B4 tat, I would always make my trip to NUH A&E for my severe headaches..But to the doctors, there's nothing wrong to me, till they refer me to the neurologist.

But wen I saw this ustaz, I was shocked, err, wat else can I say..to hear that me dah terkena buatan org..Which to me is truelah, coz kalau tak kena buatan org, takkan me leh mengandung, kan..hehe..But tat was different case..Wat he meant was, kena sihir..How wud u react/feel wen u heard this..The 1st thing came in my mind was, why???Why is this happening to me..and who??Who on earth did this to me? The next question tat the ustaz asked was, did u offend anyone? How to answer this question??I just told him, I dunno..As far as I'm concern, I try not to offend anyone, even if there is, i'll apologize..

Then, the process 'pengubatan' started..The ustaz recite a few surahs and then I started to tremble..till my mum who witnessed it said tat 'meja nak terbalik'..Wah mak, anak lu dah nak jadi incredible hulklah..According to the ustaz, 'benda' nie dihantar untuk menggangu me..My dad asked who is tat person and all i cud say is, "Abah, kita tak perlu tahu sapa punya angkara..Yg penting, adik sihat..The rest, serahkan pada Allah taala.." And dengan kuasa Allah, me dapat alamat..in all my dreams..I dreamt of this particular hamba Allah, whom i know and she admit it..then i remembered, she touched my tummy one day wen i saw her in the neighbourhood..But mimpikan mainan tidur..it cud be syaitan yg menipu..so it's best not to tuduh..

Alhamdullilah, i got well after 6mths of perubatan..Pretty long huh..I shud say, during my pregnancy, it wasn't a smooth one..and from that day onwards, i promise, i swear, i'll never watch horror movie anymore!!!

But yesterday, I watched a true horror movie..I received a msg from one of my supervisor saying tat one of the part-time operator met with a mishap..Being someone in the company who manned the HR dept, I rushed down to the staff restroom..There i saw an aunty was surrounded by 2 of my staffs fanning her..I tot I can call the ambulance but chg my mind wen she started to scream. This was absolutely abnormal. Without thinking much, in my heart, "Ya Allah, berikan aku kekuatan untuk menangani masaalah ini. Sesungguhnya KAU lebih berkuasa, Ya Allah." and i helped her with the rest of my staffs till we can't tahan anymore coz it seems tat 'shes' damn powerful..So I called my Tok Tam for help. Alhamdullillah, dengan izin Allah, that 'thing' was out. She was being possessed..

When I got back, I was being scolded by my mum. "Kenapa ko pandai-pandai?Ko tau kan, ko tu macam mana?" Me, "Mak, dah tugas adik, takkan adik nak diamkan diri..Insyallah Mak, adik tak aper aper..mak jgn bimbang.." and true enuff, I was alright..and alhamdullilah, tat staff of mine was alright too...just tat, my working place..hmmm..so kotor..Takperlah..ko dengan dunia ko, aku dengan dunia ku..Sesungguh ko pun makhluk Allah SWT..sama macam aku..

Short update..

Getting lazier to update my blog..Anyway, just a short update..

Went to JB after work last Saturday, to spend the 'duit belen' from my trip to Melaka. I had about Rm150++ left..Bought a few things there..Had our lunch @ tempat biasa where their ikan pari bakar is peh sedap, hingga menjilat jari..Brought Kinah back from mum's place..She slept quite early tat night..

On Sunday, after b'fast, we went to NUH..Sakinah was chosen to be an actress for tat day..Hehehe..No lah, actually there's these graduating medical student were having their final practical examination. So Kinah had to act like a patient for at least 2++hrs there..No poking, no physical examination to the kids...The students need to ask few qns to the parents..and then report their findings to the examiners..End of the nearly 3hrs, we received $70..plus lunch..easy money for us kan..But not easy for those students..Bukan senang nak jadi doktor..hmmm...And at the end of the day, Sakinah was well known among those examiners..mana taknya, dia yang paling kecoh @ sana..terkedek-kedek, jalan sana, jalan sini..Mcm rumah dia..

Send her to Mum's place after that..Then went to Al-Ameen Wdlands for our dinner after Maghrib..Just love their murtabak pizzalah..I was enjoying my dinner wen my aunt kol to say this, "Dik, ko kat mana??Kinah nak ibu lah..Mak ko pegi Sheng Shiong nie.." *sigh* baru nak mencekik..Rushed to mum's place after dinner..Once we reached there, I saw a mother scolding her son who is mebbe 7yrs old..Mungkin dia nak main basikal, mak dia tak kasi..And the conversation goes

Son : *Merungut* Balik rumah nanti nak pecahkan basikal nie..
Mum : PEcahlah...
Son : Nak pecahkan ah!!!!
Mum : Ko nak main basikal!! Kalau kereta langgar, kau mati, padan muka!!!
ME : *GULP* Astaghfirullah...

Me tak nafikan, tat wen we're angry, anything can just come out from our mouth..But then, pls bear in mind, watever we said can be a doa..iskh.. Kalau betul terjadi depan mata mak dia, she will feel guilty for the rest of her life, man...Baik ko bunuh jer anak ko lepas dia lahir.. Mcm siak...

Ohhhh helppp!

I was watching Supernanny last night wif hubster..It was abt how this couple managed their 3 kids, a 4 yr-old boy and a pair of twins aged 15mths..Wahlau..damn lil rascal lah tat boy! His mum was damn lembik! Then the conversation between me and hub started..

Me : Y eh, the boy behaving tat way..Jealous ke?
Hub: Tat's the prob..The age gap, 4 yrs too far..
Me : Err, then kita??
Hub: Mebbe not tat long..
Me : U mean, after my studies, we have to plan for another one??
Hub: Yup...
Me : *Gulp* errrrr...
Hub: Y???
Me : Takdelah..me super tired seh..
Hub: Penat biar satu kali terus...kalau tidak berapa lama nak tunggu..
Me : Dearie, my penat bukan satu kali jer...berkali kali..countless..

Actually, it's not tat I don't wish to have another one..Tapi frankly speaking..I'm just too worried tat I can't cope..I wanna take my driving licence after this adv dip I'm currently taking.. *sigh* Mcm mana nak escape eh???

HELP!

Kinah is already 18mths..Soon she'll turn 19mths..and soon 2yrs old. Alhamdullilah, she's doing fine, tak kiralah in development or anything. Dulu she can answer u in 1 word answer like :-

QNS : Kinah dah mamam?
ANS : Dah...

QNS : Dah mandi?
ANS : Dah...

QNS : Siapa mandikan..
ANS : Nenek..

But now, she can talk in a complete sentence..though it's a combination of mixed language..A language of her own and a general language which both u and i, can understand..

One morning, in Central Mahkota Hotel, she woke me up and said this, "Bu, ayah do(reads : tido), krukkk..kruukk (Berdengkur sound), ape jer!" I was stunned and realize how funny it was, I laughed out loud!!!Tat was her ayah's part..But on last Wednesday, I was abt taking my dinner wen she said this "Bu ni!!Akan jer..(Reads : Makan jer!)"

Again, I was stunned wif wat she said..Dlm ati, budak nie tak padan kecik..aku sental jugak mulut dia dgn cili..Berbual cam org tua..But, definitely, I'm not angry wif her..In fact, I'm proud of her..

But I've got one problem..she's stubborn..she wants to do things her own way..which at times, merbahayakan diri...Lil Kinah tak padan pompan..Lasak..Or if I forbid her doing something, and she refuse to listen..normally, I'll tell her 3times..Still tak dengar kata, then, 1 pinch @ kaki..biar terasa sakit..and still continue doing it...So, in the end, I'll just take the thing tat she was playing wif away from her, and she'll cry and cry..For me, I'll just let her be..coz she'll cry for a short while rather than we continue scolding her and buat sakit hati jer...

I heard from my friends, they will beat their kids with rotan..I'm not too sure if I can do tat..To me, it's too violent..Kalau dah biasa rotan, nanti dorang pun dah kebiasaan kena rotan..

Any advise from mummies out there, on how to discipline kids..especially those stubborn ones...Pls!!!

I'm Back!

I'm back from 'de-stressing' session..Too badlah, no photos uploaded coz there's no photos taken..sia-sia jer bawak camera..Tapi satu gambar pun tak tangkap..

Ok, let me 'story' abt the holiday..
DAY 1 - Saturday
Ina and hubster pick us up @ my mum's place exactly @8am. Drove all the way via Tuas checkpoint..Lepas jer tol @ JB, Ina took the driver's seat..I was quite worried initially coz she just got her driving licence..Mind u, she's so small and yet she drove that big car..Tak padan kecik..Tapi alhamdullilah..the journey was very smooth. Kinah slept all the way..Arrived Melaka town ard 1pm, check in the hotel and off we go for our lunch @ Mahkota Parade..It's a must for me to 'mencekik' @ Kenny Rogers..Just love it..dunno ylah..After lunch, we went to AFamosa Waterworld..So syiok tat Kinah tak nak kuar mendarat..Sampai kecut jari jemari dia...

Abt 7.45pm, we met Cik Tapah n Cik Ani for our dinner..As promised, they brought us to makan ikan bakar..Alamak, punyalah terangkat!! Tak leh tahan! Peh sedap!! Sampai sekarang dah jadi taik pun masih teringat-ingat!

DAY 2 - Sunday
After bfast, we check out from the hotel. Went to Mahkota Parade again..Tot of doing some shopping..since ada duit terlebih..Cewah..But, hampeh!! Wif Kinah's meragam...we forget abt getting anything for us! Ceh! Fedup..this Kinah kan, act mcm one big gerl..Want to get out from the pram and wander ard all by herself..she's damn hyperactive! I'm getting tired already...Took our lunch @ The Chicken rice shop..hmm..not bad..tapi mahal..After tat, wen to Ina's MIL's hometown @ Masjid Tanah..Wahlau, peh jauh..Tapi takper..syiok jugak! Ard 5, we went to Cik Tapah's home..dah janji..Mencekik lagik..This time round, Cik Tapah ordered from the warung nearby, Mee Bandung Muar..fuyoh..sedap jugaklah..Tak tau berapa kilo aku dah naik..But the best part is bila this 2 laki org, jolok buah mangga..jolok punya jolok, dapatlah 2 plastik besar..enuff to sell tepi jalan kalau tak cukup duit nak bayar tol..hahaha..and right after Maghrib, kita pun bertolak balik ke Singapore...Reached home exactly @ 12am..Send Kinah to mum's place..coz me tak larat nak jaga malam..Coz I was having flu oready...*Dalam ati, konpem besok gi jumpa bapak angkat aku ambik ubat+mc*

HoLiDaY MoOd

I'm gonna take a breather coz I desperately needs it..But not going anywhere far..Cuma gi Melaka jer..At least better than nothing..Actually was planning to go somewhere further..This time round, we'll be more 'advanterous' coz I'll be bringing an extra 'lil baggage'..heheh..Was browsing the net for interesting places to go, went to Tiger Airways.com...Hmm..Interesting priceslah..Just imagine, flying to Darwin, only $29.99..One way jerlah..But...jeng jeng jeng..the tax itself, mak datok! Tak leh angkat! Tapi takper, price letak tepi dulu as long as it's a nice place to go, I don't mind, at least it's worth the money..Well, after much consideration, it's not a suitable place for me to go..More for those who are the 'tahan lasak' pple..not for me..i'm so lembik! Futhermore, I'm bringing Lil Kinah along..tak kan nak gi panjat gunung bawak Kinah, kan..

So last last...decided to go to AFamosa..Tgk kat website mcm gerek..Tapikan, sometimes tak leh trust those pics..I remembered one incident whereby my friends and I, plus my sis went to Port Dickson..Masa tu lum kahwin lagik..We booked a room via online..Tengok cantik..Tepi laut, air kebiru-biruan, even the swimming pool nampak air tenang..But wen we reached there, unbelievable..Swimming pool berkeladak nak mampus..Air laut masa tu surut..cuma ada sampah sarap..HAMPEH! Dalam ati menyumpah seh...

Well, those were the days....I'm looking forward for this trip..Called my uncle @ Melaka...
Me : Cik, nie siti..siti nak balik Melaka weekend nie..Book hotel Famosa, tapi fully booked..
Him : Berapa org nak datang..
Me : 4org, dengan kawan siti sekali..
Him : Lah! Buat aper dok hotel..Datang rumah, rumah kan besau..
Me : Takperlah Cik..Kita duduk hotel..Nanti kita singgah eh..Tapi skang siti lum book hotel..Nanti kalau tak dapat, cik carikan bule?
Him : Huh...Bule bule..nanti ko tepon lagik..
Me : Ok cik...Assalamualaikum..Bye..

BESAU???????Hehehe..Suke dengar loghat meke..Besau, lahabau..hehehe..Watever!!

Al-Fatehah..

Alfatehah buat Allahyarhamha Adik Nurasyura yang menjadi mangsa bapa tirinya sendiri..Semoga rohnya dicucuri rahmat dan ditempatkan bersama org org beriman..Insyallah..Can't believe this is happening..Harapkan pagar, pagar makan padi..Kejam, zalim, *sigh* no other words can describe him..Sedangkan harimau pun sayangkan anaknya..Inikan pula manusia yang diberi akal untuk berfikir..Mudah-mudahan Allah SWT beri pengajaran kepada manusia yang kejam itu.. Nak kiamat agaknya dunia nie!! Ya Allah, kau lindungkan kami, hambamu yang kerdil ini dari segala penganiayaan, kekejaman...Hanya padaMU kami berlindung...Amin ya rabbal alamin..

Ibu & Anak

Me nak masuk the lookalike mother and baby punya contest...Gambar nie orait tak???Tapi Kinah spoil lah...Dia tak tengok camera..

How bout this????

Satu hari bersama burung�..

Kinah bercerita.. "Pada hari Ahad yang lalu..26/2/06, Tok busu saya telah mengajak kami sekeluarga ke Taman Burung Jurong kerana Nek Busu kita telah mendapat komplimentari pas utk masuk ke sana secara percuma.Oleh kerana Nek Busu tidak berapa sihat, Busu Fahmi kita yg ikut..Saya berasa sangat gembira...kerana dapat berjumpa sekali lagi bersama burung burung yg cantik belaka..ada yang boleh bercakap..Dia cakap mcm nie "ELLO!"...hehehe.

"Saya berpeluang sekali lagi untuk bermain air di wet playground..Sungguh syiok..Bukan saya saja yang seronok, ibu saya pun tumpang sekaki...Tengok buktinya..

Huh!! Tu, nampak tak dia pun sekaki jugak! Tapi Ibu sempat berposing depan camera..